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CarolHagan
Posted 2009-09-20 10:51 AM (#136973)
Subject: Can I really do this???


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Hello everyone! I am new here, and wanted some encouragement and a little help.

First I would like to start out with a quick intro:

My name is Carol. I am a mother to three amazing kids and wife to a wonderful husband. We are a military family living in the Northern Suburbs of Chicago. My children are 8,6, and five months. (Boy, boy, girl) My oldest son has severe autism and attends a day school for children with autism. We are very happy with the school, and his progress. My youngest son, Corey, has been diagnosed with developmental delay, ADHD, and speech delay.. though I sometimes think he may have PDD. He is the one who we are thinking of homeschooling.

We have had a horrible experience with the public school this year, and I am just tired of fighting them.

However, I really don't know if I can do it. I am lacking confidence because we homeschooled Corey for Pre-K and half of Kindergarten, and when we finally decided to enroll him last year we realized so many gaps in his education that I failed to cover.

Also, he is a very intense child. Always moving, ALWAYS needs to be busy, and doesn't like independent play much. He also has a lot of defiance, so sometimes it will take 20 minutes to just get him to put on his shoes. Homeschooling him was difficult... it really was. And with a new baby, I just don't know if I am able to do it.

But, I KNOW that homeschooling would be best. I really do believe that in my heart. I just need a bit more self confidence, and maybe a friend or two to encourage me. It's hard to hear everyone tell me how he needs to be in school because of this or that. The school he was attending was giving him nightmares. He would cry everyday going on the bus. They put him on the wrong bus on day, and he was lost for two hours. They punished him in the corner for an hour for CRYING because he wanted to go home. The school is awful. Currently, he isn't attending school at all because it just wasn't worth it. We are having a deschooling period just until I figure something out, but I know it's time to put together some sort of curriculum.

I don't know where to start. I really like the Sing, Spell, Read and Write curriculum for phonics, and I think it would be great for Corey but it's just a bit to expensive for me. I am thinking of getting Math U See for math, and a Daily Handwriting Practice book. But, what else?

He has a bit of trouble with reading comprehension, so I need something that would address that. Any suggestions?

Also, this kid doesn't like reading. I don't really push it because I don't want him to hate it, but I also want him to teach him the JOY of reading. He doesn't have the attention span to be read to for more than a minute or two. So, I have tried magazines with short stories but he just seems bored. I think the problems is his comprehension again. He has a bit of a problem understanding speech. And, I don't think I would really like to hear stories I don't understand either. Any suggestions for that?

Anyway, I guess I am done rambling.

Any helpful suggestions, advice or encouragement would be greatly appreciated.
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Caron
Posted 2009-09-20 11:24 PM (#137040 - in reply to #136973)
Subject: Welcome, Carol!


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I have three children, the oldest two of whom were graduated from homeschool and are now in college.  The youngest, who is in his high school junior year here in our homeschool, has autism.

The youngest was initially in public school special education through 3rd grade.  Although his public school experience wasn't anywhere near as awful as what Corey's experience sounds like--indeed, a lot (though definitely not all) of my ds's public school experience was positive--his academic achievement skyrocketed after we brought him home.

As is common with autism and PDD-NOS, my ds has language/speech difficulties and reading comprehension struggles.  We've had him in private speech therapy over the years, even while he was in public school. 

For reading comprehension, there are a number of possibilities.  I've used and liked a couple of SRA's series, including their Specific Skills Series and their Reading Mastery, Rainbow Edition.  The main problem with SRA is that their books are prohibitively expensive if purchased new.  I was able to find mine used, at a much more accessible cost.  I also used BJUP's reading program.  Their current teacher's editions for elementary reading contain a wealth of questions to ask the child as he/she reads, to assess comprehension.  To further supplement, I also used some of Rod and Staff's elementary readers and workbooks, but these were definitely supplements.

To help my ds learn to love to read, I took several approaches.  He loved Star Wars, so I found elementary paperback Star Wars books.  He liked video games, and I think a motivation for him to read was so that he could read the video game manuals.  He still has difficulty with reading comprehension--for example, he was utterly bewildered by Jane Austen--but is generally able to comprehend high school and some college textbooks.

 Again, welcome!

Caron

 

 

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Martha R.
Posted 2009-09-21 9:22 PM (#137197 - in reply to #136973)
Subject: Welcome, Carol!





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Glad you found us. I'm mom to 4 children (19, 16, 14, 11) and have been homeschooling for over 10 years. My #3 child has always been the challenging one -- always moving and talking, short attention span, etc. He read very late and we tried all kinds of things before discovering a focusing problem that was fixed with eye exercises. (See this page for more info: http://www.homeschoolchristian.com/curricula/specialed/vision.php ) What worked for him was listening to books on tape because he could start and stop them when he liked. If he felt like zooming about, he would stop the tape till he was ready to listen again. In this way, he worked up to listening to very long stories. (Ivanhoe was his favorite at about age 7.) Maybe that could help.

I don't have special needs kids myself (never had #3 child diagnosed), but I can offer that children act very differently when you have them in a peaceful, home environment for long periods of time as opposed to the go-go-go environment at school. You can also control the diet and exercise situation better, and that has a positive impact on many children. Homeschooling has been a tremendous blessing to us, and I'm sure it can be to you!

Here's HomeschoolChristian's special education section where you may find more info and encouragement:
http://www.homeschoolchristian.com/curricula/specialed/index.php

Best wishes to you! I hope we'll see more of you around the boards.
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shoeycat
Posted 2009-09-26 11:02 PM (#137863 - in reply to #136973)
Subject: RE: Can I really do this???


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Hi,
My 5yo son has a diagnosis of PDD. For the last two years he was in a four-day-a-week program through the public school system which was GREAT for him. I'm so sorry your son's experience has not been the same. Had Eli's teachers not been so fantastic with him, we would have had him home in a jiffy!! We have brought him home this year for kindergarten, as we feel he would not have profited from the integrated kindergarten they recommended for him. I also homeschool three of my other boys (our oldest son and only daughter have graduated). The other boys are 6, 11 and 14. While I am just finding my way with Eli right now, I encourage you to relax regarding academics. Even neurotypical boys can need extra time for their brains to mature to a place where reading, in particular, comes easily. Eli's 6-year-old brother is very bright and articulate, but we are just now moving ahead with reading for him this year. If you are reading aloud to him, seeing that he gets lots of motor activity, playing games that encourage learning in fun ways, and letting him play, his brain is probably maturing more than you can see right now. Your son may be completely different than mine, but one way Eli has learned A LOT is from (believe it or not) electronic toys (all of which have come from garage sales or thrift stores). He will sit with toys that give letter names, sounds, ask for missing letters in words, etc. He enjoys that he can do it by himself, with no demands being made on him. That may be just one of his personal "quirks", but I thought I'd mention it in case your son enjoys that sort of thing, too.
I like to encourage myself by remembering that when I was in kindergarten, all we did was PLAY! Have you ever read Raymond and Dorothy Moore's book, "School Can Wait"? It is based on solid research, and encourages waiting for children to be ready for academics (especially boys!). With Eli, this year, I am focusing on motor skills he is lacking. When he shows an interest in what I am doing with Asa, I include him, but make it clear he can leave when his attention gives out. This post is kind of rambly, but I hope it encourages you! May God's blessing be on you as you love your kids and seek what is best for them.
Shelley Boyd
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